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Gardening can be so heartbreaking… {Gardening Chronicles

This week we had that huge storm that all the channels couldn’t stop warning everyone about…
It came through fast….lots of tornado pictures from Facebook friends and talk of Derecho Winds (yes, I had to google that one)…
As it came closer I made sure all the tomatoes were extra staked down in hopes they wouldn’t snap in the winds.
I took the top of the gazebo to the middle and strapped it down to try and make it less like a big kite and more like something that wouldn’t end up in my neighbors yard.
I put cushions away and hanging baskets all secured…
I thought I had it all secure.

The winds hit and well…
My little porch greenhouse apparently not so secure…

This is the part where I add that this happened at the beginning of the storm when the winds where nuts!
I threw the baby at poor Anne (who was taking refuge from the storm at our house instead of driving in it) and ran out on the porch to try and keep it all from flying down the street.
Haley is still telling everyone mom is nuts…and she is kindof right.
See my “other babies” were in there!

I had:

Rocky Ford Muskmelon
Pink Candy Roaster Winter Squash
Okra
Boston Pickling Cucumbers
A few random yellow squash and cucumber plants
Burdock root
Borage

After the storm they looked like this…

Uhmmmm….

Yah…see here is a huge problem
I only labeled one cell pack out of each tray because each tray was the same thing.
Sooooooooo….I just picked up the ones I could save and put them back in any cell pack or tray I could find.
All willy nilly.

I went for the “save them first…figure out what the heck they are 2 months from now” method;-)
The next day Lucas and I took the survivors out and planted them all over the yard.  I had planned to use these for succession planting in about 2 more weeks but alas…survival of the fittest.
I tried to plant the little babies that looked the most alike together but I am pretty sure there was a whole lot of mixing up going on and in a garden as small as mine, I have no doubt, my garden is going to resemble a wild jungle in a few short weeks since I have zero idea what is where.
This is about to get VERY interesting!
The things I do to grow our food.

The established squash plants took a pretty big whack and lots of broken leaves but they are back to ginormous a few short days later…

But my tomatoes and gazebo tent thingy made it through to see another day!
I have had several folks tell me they just decided not to plant this year because it’s “too late in the season” and my answer is always “HECK NO it isn’t!”
The season is just getting started!
Here is what I will be getting started in my little greenhouse next week…
Broccoli
Carrots (seed to ground)
Parsnips
Peppers
Pumpkins
squash

As things fizzle in the garden they get replaced with the new babies and come the beginning of August we will start the rotations over to cold weather crops.
This can be an almost year round hobby in Virginia!
I love this place!

If you are wondering about my “fancy greenhouse” I picked it up for super cheap on Amazon.  Just search “greenhouse” and about a million options pop up.
I love mine!  I wouldn’t think twice about buying another one:-)

  

Middle school homeschooling…weren’t they just in second grade? :-(

I can’t help but get all teary and girlie when I think about these two older kiddos and how fast this whole parenting journey is going.
We are heading into year 6 of homeschooling!
5 YEARS I have been giving up my life to teach these two..
5 YEARS we have sacrificed that second real income we could totally use…but know that value of homeschooling them far out ways the financial end.
5 YEARS I have been lucky enough to know everything about these two…day in and day out.
5 YEARS I have had no clue what it is like to have a lunch break or a “paid vacation”.
5 YEARS I haven’t been able to “lunch with girlfriends” or “go to the gym” while the kids are at school.
5 of the best years of my life.
Years I will remember as the best I have ever had.
Every sacrifice…every thing we have “given up”….everything that others think we are nuts for doing.
A gift.
How could we NOT keep doing this thing called “homeschooling”?

We have had more adventures in those 5 years together than most families have in a lifetime.
These kids have been on nothing short of 200 field trips….hands on learning like no school could have ever given them.
This fits us for several reasons.
But the reason it probably works so well for us is we all get along without fighting or bickering.  Perhaps that is just our family dynamic and would have been no matter where they went to school…but when I say my kids don’t give us “attitude” I am not lying….they are not “typical” at all most days (at least not yet).
There are no raised voices in this house…
There are family dinners most nights…
There are moments we all just sit around gabbing and listening…cutting up and being together.
I have no doubt we would have had that if they had gone to “real school”, they actually did go for a year or so in the beginning, but we wouldn’t know each other that way we do now.  We wouldn’t connect the same because our time together would be so limited.  This I know because we DID do the “real school” thing for a time.
The best hours of their day would be spent with someone else.
I will never, ever, ever, ever regret our decision to homeschool them.
Ever.
Homeschooling is NOT for everyone…I know this for sure.
But it fits us perfectly…it is what we “know”.

This year Haley goes onto 6th grade.
This picture make me so sad….I think she must have been about 7 or 8.  We would go up to Carters Mountain and sit on the side of the mountain doing their “homework”.  Best classroom in the world!
We were told she would possibly never read well.  We gave her time to grow into herself though.
Never focusing only on reading…making reading something that would “come with time”.  As she grew and SHE wanted it more…it came.
This year she took her 5th grade CAT test and it was all I could do not to get all teary on her watching her plow through it for the first time ever without needing me to read parts of it to her.  She got the answers right and it didn’t end in tears of frustration.
If we had kept her in “real school” she would still be on the 4th grade level and who knows how well her self confidence would or wouldn’t have held up.
I look at this as one of my greatest achievements of my life…giving her that time to “get it” without the kick to her confidence that dyslexia can be.
I just wanted her dyslexia to NOT be who she is but rather just a small chunk of her.
My artist…I have no doubt her crazy arts and craft skills will get her far in life….or at least pay some bills by doing what she loves.

 

 

 

 

Adam….
Ugh…my sweet, smart fella.  He is now officially ”smarter” than me.
I fully admit this and he teaches me things everyday.  I am bumping him a full grade level next year.
We had originally held him back in Kindergarten because he is a late June birthday and was just not ready to “sit in a classroom”.
But the thing is he grew up and calmed down and learns things with ease.  Lucky boy.
So for him…bumping from 6th grade this year to 8th grade next year shouldn’t be an issue.  He is bored.
That is what I love about homeschool.  You teach the child where THEY are…not where the group is.
His math will still be Pre-Algebra and I am not even sure what “grade level” that actually is?
He wants to start college his 9th grade year at the ripe old age of 14.  At this rate I have no doubt he will do just that.
He is very much “self led” these days.  I hand him a book and say “Read this and report back please.”….which he always does and seems to enjoy.
Next year we will be perfecting things like writing skills, a tougher Science/History program, and his penmanship is awful !(so that will be worked on..he is such a lefty!)
Java is his Sumer project…he is teaching himself how to make Minecraft Mod’s and plugins.

 

 

 

 

To all you homeschooling mama’s out there…know this…
They grow fast.  You may have days where you want to pull your hair out…
When you are convinced you are doing this thing all wrong…
When you think you may never be able to have a moment alone again…
When you question if they are “missing out” on traditional school…
When you just know your house is going to look like a tornado went through it EVERYDAY for the rest of your life…
When you can’t possibly explain the difference between a verb and noun one more time…don’t get me started on participles…
BUT
It is all temporary.  
They grow…they get to where you are more of a cheerleader and a navigator than a “teacher”…
And you will be so thankful for that time you had with them…
They will even tell you they are thankful for homeschooling (or at least mine do often!)
They may even tell you one day that they think you are pretty awesome and like “hanging out with their parents” (which both mine will tell you)
Those endless field trips and days hiking together in the sunshine…or the rain…or the snow.
Temporary.
Enjoy the ride.
The memories and family bonds last a lifetime.  They have one childhood.  Give them the gift of a good one and it will last them a lifetime.

  

Daryl says I am a witch…

Or at least if we where living 100 years ago he swears they would be burning me at the stake.
I just tell him that 100 years ago EVERYONE knew how to use the herbs in their yard to treat common ailments because they couldn’t just walk their butt down to the local CVS and pick up a big pharma drug.
Did the herbs and plants in our yards stop healing?  Nope…we just forgot that they could.

As I venture into the world of herbal medicine I am finding I have this hunger to just keep learning more and more.
Once you start realizing when someone in your family can’t sleep you can just give them a little catnip tea and it works everybit as good as a sleeping pill you start realizing just how many little drugs we rely on these days.
Healing everything from headaches, cramps, to cuts and scrapes…you name it there is a cure  from ingredients in my yard.
I want to keep learning everything I can!
Thank God for Krista and her classes:-)

I have always been a big fan of herbs in my gardens and flower beds for cooking.
I never had the first clue what to do with them as a medicine!  Kindof nice though now that I am learning the medicinal side since I already had such a good amount of herbs already growing.  Although the variety is growing by the day as I learn.
I had no desire to become a Dr. but herbs….I am hooked.

 

 

I have been loving making the tinctures, oils and dried jars of herbs as they come in.
Last week in class we tinctured Yarrow, and Four Thieves …and a bunch of other goodies I will be sharing once I finish editing out all the photos from the last class (slacker).

Tincturing an herb or plant is how you extract the medicinal parts of it.
It is simple.  Cut the herbs/plants (preferably in the morning and after two days of no rain) and place them in a jar with 100% Vodka with a piece of wax paper in between the lid and jar rim.
Let them sit in a cool, dark place for 6 weeks and give them a shake up about once a day.
At the end of the 6 weeks it’s time to strain out the herbs.

Simply pour the herbs through the cheesecloth ….

Squeeze out every last bit…

If you are like me and do not own a small funnel to transfer to the medicine cabinet jars…no worries.  Just grab the wax paper again.

That’s it…well unless you are me and know there is zero chance you will ever remember which thing is in which bottle.
And if you are like me you won’t be able to read your own handwriting even if you did hand write a label.
There was only one thing left to do.
Design a label for these lovelies.

Here is the thing…right about now if you are into herbalism you are going “I want those labels!!!”
If you would like them simply add your e-mail address by clicking “Newletter” in the top left on this page.
I will be sending them out in the July 1st newsletter e-mail as a zip file with a ton of herbs that I know we will be using in our class this Summer.
I need them for myself and figure I will share them with anyone who would like them as well.
They make the bottles look so pretty!

Oh and if you are lucky you may have a bug or two in your herb basket helping harvest… apparently Lucas thought I needed this fella.
Now off to take a pasta making class tonight with my friend Anne!  Can’t wait!  You know you can make gluten free pasta;-)

  

And moving onto June { Gardening Chronicles 2013

There has been a whole lot of this going on over the last month…..
Lots of yard renovation, dirt, weeding, composting blah blah blah blah…lots of it!
As promised…how about a beginning of June garden update?

Let’s start with the squash and cucumbers…
These plants are 2-3 weeks out from seeds in the ground!  After the tropical storm this weekend they are now twice as big as this picture!  Although I have my concerns how well anything in the garden is going to do after all this rain!  Around 6″ in less than 24 hours…and more storms tonight…ugh!

The tomatoes are looking lovely…we are up to 30+ tomato plants all over the yard now….very little ryhme or reason to where I have them placed.
In the beginning the plants I grew in my little green house went into rows but then I had “leftovers” and didn’t have the heart to toss them in the compost pile and so I stuck them in with the flower beds, pots and well…anywhere I could sneak one!
I have been doing a good job, so far, this year of keeping them suckled and the bottom leaves off the ground.
I also planted the garden batch with Epsom salt and crushed egg shells…God Bless Pinterest!  I will let you know if this method works at the end of the Summer.  So far they are huge!  They also seemed to have doubled this weekend!

The celery I had planted finally went to flower…which means celery seed for cooking soon!  I am very excited about this:-)

The Swiss Chard is lovely….although I am fighting cabbage moths (grrrrrr)

It’s coming along!

I need to get a better trellis for the cantaloupes and cucumbers.  In a garden this compact “up” is the only way to go with vines most days!

“My helper” was so helpful planting sunflowers, zinnias, okra and strawberry popcorn.  So helpful he went back to try and dig up the seeds….
Silly baby:-)

“What mom!  I’m helping!”

This week I will be pulling up the radishes and some lettuce and putting in the Winter squash plants I have started in the little greenhouse.
So far so good.
Grow garden grow!

 

  

“All things seem possible in May”…. {Gardening Chronicles 2013

Number one question this year…why do you start from seed rather than buy plants already started at the store?
First answer is I “prefer” plants I have started either in my little miniature green house or in the garden from seed but this doesn’t mean I don’t purchase an heirloom tomato here and there when I can find them at small greenhouses.  I am absolutely addicted to the 75% off rack at Lowe’s for dead and dying perennial flowers and shrubs.  I have yet to pay full price for those sorts of plants.
Second answer….when it comes to veggies I ALWAYS have better luck keeping a plant from disease if I DON’T get it from a big box shop.  Those plants, especially the last 5 years or so, seem to just be riddled with blights and issues from the start.

It is worth the extra time and patience for me to start my plants myself.

I also figured out that the big box shops carry really boring plants.  Really.
I mean how many varieties of hybrid tomato and pepper plants do we really need?
With seeds I can grow some really odd things each year and test out new veggies.  So fun!  Last year we had Lemon cucumbers  purple pole beans, pink lima beans, zebra tomatoes and several other heirloom variations I had never heard…it’s an adventure!

This year we expanded our kitchen garden with about another 6′x30′ and then we added two new huge “flower beds” which have tons of herbs and some veggies hidden in amongst the flowers.  Gotta be a bit sneaky in the HOA neighborhood;-)
So how about a peek at the May garden…I know I am behind but we have to start at the beginning!

It started off looking like this…
Lovely orange clay soil…ugh.

Notice my dead tree to the far right?  I planted those last fall if you remember…I bought them sick so not surprised one didn’t make it but the other three seem to be fighting the good fight.  (and oh my goodness my gardens have tripled and I have redesigned everything since those pictures!  Geeze I have a whole lot of blogging to get caught up on now that everything is pretty much in the ground now.)

So in it’s place we put a grapevine!  This should be interesting….
A few things about this next picture…first you can see the grapevine…grow baby grow!
Second I get asked alot about why I put hay on my garden.  I have been doing this for years although until the whole living class out at Forrest Green I had  been using straw.  Now I know better (Thanks Rob and Krista!)…I shall be sticking with hay and giving back nutrients to the soil.
I also put newspaper under it to keep the weeds down.  It will also break down by the end of the season and just get tilled back into the ground.
More on this when I post about my last two Whole Living Classes.

Ok see those gorgeous squash, zucchini and cucumber plants growing?
Those are 2 week old, straight from package to ground, plants.  Patients.  4 weeks out and they have doubled…pictures in the next post.
An extra plus to the seed in the ground method?  It’s far cheaper.
I have this pet peeve right now with growers doubling prices on their flower packs and taking them from 6 cell packs to 1-4 plants per pack.
This drives me nuts.  Probably because I know how easy it is to get 4+ times as many plants from a $2 seed pack.
Don’t get me wrong….seeds don’t always work.  But once you get the hang of growing seeds you are hooked!

And for those of you who follow the gardening chronicles each year you are probably wondering where my peas are?
I was too….Check out my poor pea plants!

Disease?  Bugs?
Nope…”Stewie”  aka the baby bunny living in my day lilies!

Why “Stewie”?  Because we know with 2 cats and 2 dogs in this yard…his days are probably numbered and he will be someones dinner.
The circle of life goes around even in the burbs.
But until then….I will share.

Tomorrow I will try and get the June pics up to date.
We have been eating lots of lettuce, radishes, eating/drying/tincturing tons of herbs, bok choy, swiss chard, carrots, celery, onions, mustard and turnips.  It is amazing how much such a small space can provide!

PS~  Not even close to too late to get out there and start some plants!   What are you waiting on?